I get infulenced by my enviourment and people so easily.
For example
If I don't want to drink alchoal but If someone try to convince me ( like alcohal is not bad, just have one, It's good to release tension) I would easily get infulenced by them and drink it even though I didn't want to.
Similarly If I don't feel like going somewhere but other person give some reasoning I would agree even though I strongly feel not going there I just can't find logic "why" and can't argue with them.
Any book that helps me build my identity with clear understanding of why I want certain things and stick to it and articulate it.
by nik1here
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That’s a tough problem. These books have helped me address it for myself from various angles.
*Turn this world inside out* by Nora Samaran
*Unlearning shame* by Devon Price
*The resilience myth* by Soraya Chemaly
The “why” part is not as important as the ability to just no and stick to it.