Suggestion for Entitled White Women?

Woo sure that incendiary title got some attention!!

Looking for a passive-aggressive way to deal with a WASP-y, privileged colleague who is coming at me because she doesn’t like my personality/mannerisms.

I’d like to find a read about internalized misogyny from an intersectional perspective. Thinking how women in traditionally privileged spaces have internalized the practice of judging other women from differing backgrounds and masking the behaviors under the guise of liberal politics, taking them off the hook for any meaningful self-reflection.

Any ideas of writers/thinkers working in those spaces?

Thanks so much!!

(Also we work in academia and this is our field…we just happen to be at a divide of generational approaches: gen x vs. millennial)