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    so i am 18 and i will be starting university next year and i know i just want to change my habits, no matter what i do i always fall back into them, here are some of the things i lack on:

    Talking: This is a huge one for me, i feel like i just cannot talk to people in a way where i don't know what to say. im not ant social, i just let my stutter hold me back from meeting new people. it is very hard for me to make friends, have casual conversations or even talk to class mates, but i am very social around my cousins, old friends back home and family. i also feel like i don't know how to explain stuff a certain way and my thoughts and always blank on quick questions .

    Procrastination and discipline: i always procrastonate everything, and i always find myself doing work at 2 am when i had 15 hours during the day to do them, and i waste so much of my time. whenever i sit down to study i am always moving around every few minutes and my attention span is dead, i always feel like i am doing something else other than studying. i always tell myself to do better but i can never do it. i made calenders, set up time to do things, hid disractions but for some reason i keep falling right back in. i gave myslef a task to go to the gym 3 times a week and i cannot even do that.

    I know reading a book won't magically change my life but it will give me a sense of what i can accomplish, from different viewpoints. i would rather have a physical copy so that i am not facing an electronic all the time. it would also be a good way to deal with my attention span and discipline ( to finish the book obviously).

    Any help is appreciated
    (would be great if i can have it in 1 book, but open to seperate)

    by Quirky-Fan-3845

    1 Comment

    1. ShaoKahnKillah on

      This is not a book suggestion, nor is it judgement/accusation. I just want to say, if you’re having anxiety and you have the resources, please don’t be afraid to talk to a professional. Whether it be your doctor, a psychiatrist, or a licensed therapist, it really can’t hurt and probably CAN help. Good luck and I wish you the best!

      Edit: fixed the autocorrect jumbled up nonsense in the first sentence.

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