Non traditional fantasy

I'm looking for any 1 or combination of:

-series
-poc characters
-lgbtq characters
-not set in castles in europe
-written by a woman
-protag doesn't win (but don't tell me)
-villian is the hero? (Or the protag just isn't a good person)
-mixed fantasy and scifi
-slice of life
-grim dark

Currently, my top favorite reads are:
Murderbot Diaries, Martha Wells
Dreamblood Duology, N.K. Jemisin
A Land Fit for Heros, Richard Morgan
The Iron Druid, Kevin Hearn

If you just have a fiction book you love, share that too. I refer back to my posts to find new material.

Thanks <3