Hi guys, I'm not english native so bare with me for a minute, please… You see, I was feeling guilty about something and then I started to analyze what caused it and it turns out the situation that's weighing on me right now started like three generations ago and it's converged trauma from 3 different families…
Don't ask me why, but that's the conclusion I reached, so I tried to extrapolate a theory from it and I ended up convinced that toxic people are the result of like little pieces of trauma put together throughout the years but they are a bigger system nonetheless, so that means that they can engendrate even more severe trauma with actions just as little as a piece of which they're made of… Does this make any sense to you? I hope it does
So anyway, I got curious about what is already known about a toxic person scientifically and the causes for them to become like this. Keep in mind that I'm looking for causes, not solutions, I don't care about how to revert those toxic traits… yet. I just wanna give it a little more thought on my own before reaching that stage. Can you help me recommending books about what causes a person to become toxic in the first place? Things like personality, brain chemistry, events in life… Anything there is to know about the "before" of a toxic person, I wanna know.
Thanks in advance for your time!
by luzcorrales