Books for dating and relationships for woman?

I’m trying to find relationship books specifically for woman. But they all are about how to manipulate men or change who you are to get a man

I’m looking for books on;

1. How to feel comfortable being around a man and how to understand men

2. How to be the best woman possible for a man while still being myself

Any suggestions appreciated.

Also I’m late 20s, Christian, have social anxiety and low self esteem and a feminist so any books specifically with those themes would be nice