My husbands new friend from work was an EMT/paramedic for 6 years and is a very intelligent guy, but struggles a lot with talking to women and he has been unable to have any relationships because of this. The way my husband described it to me was as if he freezes/dissociates because he doesn’t know what to say or do and with being a paramedic he was able to move aside his emotions and physically do something to save that persons life, but the lack of being able to physically do something when he is talking to women is what he thinks makes him freeze.
My husband used to study psychology and was a first responder himself as well as usually knowing how to work through stuff like that, but he wasn’t even really sure how help him here.
Any book suggestions with some type of similar experience with EMT/Police/Fire/etc and developing strength to talk with women (specifically) would be sooo greatly suggested!!! TIA!!
by CrimsonMoonWater
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Why don’t you lay on the ground, cover yourself in tomato sauce, and let him practice with you?