In short, I give off negative energy to other people. I’ve often been told that I give initial bad vibes or that their first impression is I don’t want to be there and I don’t like them – this is almost always far from being the case, but often people instinctively dislike you back when you make them feel this way so I need to work on this.
I’ve read all the stuff like How to Win Friends and Influence People, but it’s not really a confidence problem, it’s almost more fundamental – I don’t like the term but it is basically “bad vibes”.
As a result, any book recommendations on the topic of positive energy / vibes etc that might help with this would be gratefully received – it can be woo or very practical. I’m open to new ideas as it is starting to affect my career. Thank you!
by Unusual_Minimum1