It’s only been in the last ten years that I’ve realized how abusive and traumatic my childhood really was and how garbage my parents are. I won’t be going into detail here but one of the most difficult aspects for me to swallow is that my parents will never be able to look outside themselves and see that the things they did weren’t okay — they will never understand that they were wrong, so accordingly, they will never apologize or even just acknowledge that they could have done better by me. I’m just going to have to live with the fact that, in their reality, I’m the one that’s harmed them by going no-contact with them and that’s the story that all the rest of the family will be hearing about me.
But I keep wanting that big climatic moment near the end of the second act where I let loose and read them for filth and they finally get it through their thick heads that *they* are the problem.
I understand I’m never going to get that moment in real life, but I want it so badly, so help me find books about people healing from broken families, escaping abusive parents, and learning to be whole despite less-than-loving upbringings.
I loved *Educated* by Tara Westover, *I’m Glad My Mom Died* by Jeannette McCurdy, *Fun Home* by Alison Bechdel, the Copenhagen trilogy by Tove Ditlevsen, the Patrick Melrose books by Edward St. Aubyn, and *Pageboy* by Elliot Paige.
What else ya guys got? Fiction or nonfiction are equally good to me.
by lucy_valiant
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Based on some of the books you liked, I would recommend *Burned* by Ellen Hopkins. I also enjoyed the follow-up book: *Smoke.* Also, *A Story of a Girl* by Sara Zarr is good.
The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls and Oranges are Not the Only Fruit/Why Be Happy when you could be normal by Jeannette Winterson are really great books about growing up in an abusive home and surviving as yourself.
Educated is a great one for this
[Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35900387) by Gail Honeyman.
Best of luck on your journey of healing 💜
Any of the books by V.C. Andrews is going to give you some major family drama to follow. There are 11 books in the Flowers in the Attic series and sounds right up your alley.
*Matilda* by Ronald Dahl.
*Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents : how to heal if your parents couldn’t meet your emotional needs* by Lindsay C. Gibson.