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    She likes rom coms but does often find that, even for her, they can be somewhat poorly written and a bit dull. Plus she also wants to read something that will…I guess enrich her culturally a little more?

    I don't think she would go for something sci/fi or fantasy but would probably be open to classics and she has enjoyed stuff like Girl on the Train in the past.

    It can't be anything that is too hard to follow or too long or sad. It doesn't need to be funny, per se, but at least having some elements that are heartwarming/uplifting I think would help.

    Is there anything that springs to mind?

    Thanks!!

    by MaximusSydney

    13 Comments

    1. Did she ask you to do this? Because if not you need to back off and let her enjoy what she enjoys without trying to change her preferences 

      Just because romcoms are light reading or steamy reading doesn’t mean theyre “trash”

    2. Swimming-Tear-5022 on

      She could try Victorian romances like Two on a Tower by Thomas Hardy or one by Anthony Trollope

      EDIT: ok skip Two on a Tower cause it’s pretty sad. Trollope’s are pretty lighthearted though

    3. Single-Aardvark9330 on

      Then she was gone by Lisa jewel? It’s a pretty popular book, and having read it in one day I can see why.

      It’s a thriller about a girl who goes missing and is told partly from her pov, partly from her mums, and (once you find out who took her) from their pov

    4. Past-Wrangler9513 on

      If she’s open to classics I’d try Lady Susan by Jane Austen. It’s not as popular as Austen’s other works but it’s a novella and personally I like to dip my toes into new genres with shorter books. It’s funny and witty.

    5. RomanRefrigerator on

      The Anne of green gables series

      Emily of New Moon series

      The Blue Castle 

      All by Lucy Maud Montgomery of course, lol, but the three heroines across the books are unique. If she wants something more standalone, I recommend The Blue Castle first.

    6. You can ask for a book suggestion without denigrating books lots of people love as “trashy”. I’m currently reading the whole National book award long list and also an 18 book paranormal romance series – there is room to appreciate all kinds of books without being disrespectful to anyone.

      I get that maybe she used that word (and also that internalized misogyny is real), don’t think that makes it ok. This is also just always going to come off weird coming from her partner rather than her. Like if I were making this request for myself I probably wouldn’t have included “even for me” and asked to be “culturally enriched”.

      By the by, the entire National book award list (shortlist especially, announced yesterday) is fantastic this year.

    7. Silver_Height_9785 on

      Is it because she feels stupid reading those books? I have never been much into non fiction or classics. Sometimes those are too deep or complex for me to understand & appreciate it. My genre preferences have changed from crimes to paranormal to contemporary.

      I did have a phase of ” trashy romances” or rather i prefer ” junk food ” because it’s read despite its terrible character faults and flaws , grammatical errors and zero plot. Just purely for yourself with no enrichment. I still read those. Sometimes I don’t like it . So I read well written books within romance category.

      Some of the classics and other books i enjoyed were
      1) Jane Eyre
      2) Prisoner of Birth by David Baldacci
      3)The count of Monte Christo

      These are pretty long books.

    8. ravensarefree on

      Emily Henry (light, fun, but well-written romcoms) and Sally Rooney (slower, more emotional work with some romance, but more litfic/book club style)

    9. doomscrolling_tiktok on

      Cranford by Elizabeth Gaskell

      To read before ones that are longer like Jane Austin and Brontë classics. It’s period and still comedy of manners but bite size and more comedy.

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