hey guys, i am going through a break up right now and it basically ended because his avoidance made my anxiety really spark up. we had a long talk and figured out we were both very lonely and fell in love because we were lonely first and then only later because of our personalities. he told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship at that time and it reminded me of my old relationships, where when we’d break up they’d tell me the same things.
i figured out that what i put out in the world is what i receive, so i really need to just start working on being fulfilled for myself.
does anyone know kind of like a guide on how to start being less attached when i start dating, and tbh maybe rather a book that teaches me how to accept myself and being okay with being by myself. id appreciate it <3
by elisurrr