fiction books that made you contemplate life and coming of age

book(s) that made you really think in a philosophical sense. About life, relationships, tragedy, coming of age, family, mental health etc.

Some examples for me:

The Secret History by Donna Tartt

My Year of Rest & Relaxation by Otessa Moshfegh

Blue Sisters by Coco Mellors

The Midnight Library by Matt Haig

Alone With You in the Ether by Olivie Blake

(to name a few)