Are there books about how parents childhood (first born son , youngest daughter etc) affected their way of parenting (treating first born son different than the girl etc)?

I’m interested in the subject.

My parents have 6 and 9 siblings each and I feel like my aunts’, uncles’ , dad and mom’s personalities , lives are shaped on how different they were treated.

Now I feel like how they treat their kids shaped my and my siblings’ personality and lives.

I would like to learn about it in every way, mostly culturally because culture effects how children are treated and raised. (sons vs daughters etc)

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