It took me 1 month to finish the first chapter but then I finished the book in just 4-5days.
I've seen many people to say this is so unrealistic, but then I realized no.. it's not. There are many people who get abused their entire childhood and then even in their adult life they always craving for some love and affection and falling for wrong persons.
This book is not for you if you're going through major mental health issues.. please avoid it. Read it if you think you can take stuff like trauma and abuse.
I am going through some major life crisis and the entire time I was thinking "did it happen because of me? Am I being so selfish? Am I a person who doesn't deserve anything so that's why this happened? Maybe I should share my sad stories with my friends, they would think I am being an attention seeker"
Didn't Jude feel the same?
That's why I can't blame Jude.
Once I went to a therapist and he was talking to my life those judgmental people, showing me an attitude like "Why are you not fitting with society?" Why would I come to you If I knew the answer. From that day I understood not every therapist is good for you. May be Jude felt same. He wanted to feel the power of control but he kept ruining himself. People around him knew Jude is doing something harmful but they didn't want to ask him to act like a good friend. That's when you make the major mistake in friendship.
by tayebah