A few weeks ago I created a reading nook in an area of my house with unused space. It became a safe haven and I loved cuddling with my two dogs and a book. One of my dogs passed away this weekend and I don’t feel safe in the space anymore. When I sit there with my other dog I feel like we both miss her even more being surrounded by her memory. I always read with her on my lap and now when I go to read I become overwhelmingly sad. I love reading and want to use it as a comfort in this hard time, but am feeling triggered by this area. Any advice? I’m thinking of repainting the area with a brighter color to make it less dark/cozy and more vibrant.
by alh7112
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Maybe go for a walk with an audiobook? I’m sorry for your loss.
It just happened. There’s no race you need to win. I’m sorry about your doggie. Don’t push yourself.
Paint or decor could be really nice, but still, don’t push yourself. It’s okay to have a cry, need a break, or let things go a little. You might find later that your dark and cozy nook is a comfortable place for memories.